Party With a Purpose

How peer-led hangouts build real-world skills and lasting friendships for for young adults with disabilities

At Pathways to Independence, we’ve seen how powerful it can be when participants get to take the lead. Our Social Focus outings put members in the driver’s seat with staff support: giving them the tools and confidence to organize their own small group outings and take ownership of their social lives.

From crafting nights to trips to the cat café in Historic St. Charles, participants decide what the outing will be, who to invite, and how the event will run, all with staff offering guidance along the way. For many, it’s their first time planning a get-together with friends on their own. That moment when a peer accepts their invite? It’s not just exciting – it’s empowering!

These fun, self-directed gatherings are especially powerful tools in social skill building for young adults and adults with disabilities. Social Focus helps participants strengthen essential life skills like:
Executive functioning (planning, initiating, organizing, following through)
Communication (inviting peers, sharing accurate details, making decisions, following up)
Social confidence (deepening existing connections, hosting, navigating group dynamics)

These aren’t just parties – they’re parties with a purpose. They’re stepping stones toward greater independence and self-determination.

Some recent Social Focus outings included:
Animals Aglow at the Zoo
Exploring The Science Center
Putt-putt adventures
Cat Zen Café hangs in St. Charles
Tower Grove Farmers Market
Dinner at a favorite local spot
Cooking and baking with friends
Crafting nights full of creativity

Social Focus builds on the connections made in our Social Growth program, and leads to deeper connections between individuals. Participants often tell us they feel more confident after hosting an event, and many go on to plan their own gatherings outside of Pathways. It’s not just about having fun (though that’s a big part); it’s about learning to create your own community and feeling proud of what you’ve made.

Interested in helping your neurodiverse loved one plan their own party with a purpose? Click here to get involved.